Is Intimacy only about Sex? – 4 steps to better intimacy

Picture this!  A bloke talking about intimacy! Or hundreds of blokes talking about intimacy! A rare occurrence, yet an informative and transformational discussion. Many of my consultations with men focus attention on a subject that can seem a tad uncomfortable! How to manage the decline in sex and what does intimacy mean. Men have described […]

In a recent Man Talk session the blokes shared their thoughts about whether it’s possible to be stoic, tough and vulnerable. Watch the video below for a summary of our discussion. Then read on for more information about men being tough, stoic and vulnerable. Let’s expand on all this a little! What does tough mean?  […]

Let’s talk about men’s feelings! Oh no! Not some mushy blog about feelings! I can almost hear the collective groan of men who would prefer to steer away and go back to their screen! Stay with me! Don’t go! Hear me out! It’s difficult, sometimes awkward, I know! You may be surprised to hear that […]

Valentines Day can be a mixed experience for some relationships. Some couples see Valentines Day as an essential ingredient of their romantic and intimate lives. Accordingly, they plan, organise and manage the day with relative ease and comfort. Indeed, it can enhance their love, intimacy and connection. However, for other couples it’s more complicated! Millions […]

There seems to be a myriad of myths and stories as to the true origins of Valentines Day. Yet in our commercial world, Valentines Day creates all kinds of expectations in terms of expressing love and romance predominantly through gifts and experiences. Valentines Day may be a good time to go beyond the commercial aspects […]

What does security mean to you in your relationship? Many couples prioritise financial and domestic issues as measures of security. However, the degree to which the connection between you and your partner provides a safe port of call in times of need is an essential factor in the longevity of relationships. How does that sound […]